I often feel that, at the same time as giving birth to my kids, I also gave birth to a whole new layer of feelings and emotions. Of course there is love, there is pride, there is happiness but there is also guilt, worry and fear.
And lately, it is fear that has been playing on mind. Lurking around the edges of my consciousness.
Fear of what life holds for my children.
Fear for their safety. Fear for their health.
I fear that I will lose them.
I fear that I won't get to see them grow up.
Sometimes it can be overwhelming. Watching the news can leave me feeling sick, anxious. Terror attacks in France, Germany, Belgium, America, Turkey, Pakistan, Kenya, Iraq and so many more countries where these attacks are now considered 'normal' - what could be worse than living in a country where attacks are so frequent they're no longer considered newsworthy?
Hatred, hooliganism, racism, greed. Does anyone else feel like there is only bad stuff around at the moment?
This is not what I want for my children. For any children.
Sometimes it feels like the darkness is closing in. Like the fear overshadows even the simplest of things. I'm scared to go on a plane, on the tube,
But. At the most basic level. Darkness is merely an absence of light.
And that is what I hold on to. I take refuge in my faith. My belief that if there is good anywhere in the world it will shine on the darkness and the dark can only flee from it.
And our children, the future, can be a future of light.
They're like blank canvases, like pure white, unblemished candles waiting for that spark.
And I want to nurture that flame. I want to help it shine brightly.
I hope to teach my children that they have the power to change things. That even the tiniest of things can bring light into the world. That they can befriend someone of any race, gender, faith, culture or sexuality and bring joy.
I want my children to know that just because bad things happen in life, it doesn't mean that life is bad.
I want them to know that Matt and I are a haven of safety in times of trouble. And that even though we may sometimes fail, God will not.
I hope to discover for myself, and then teach my children how to face this fear and tell it to f**k off.
(When they're much older obviously, I'd be devastated if they used that sort of language right now. For now they can face the fear before asking it to go away please... )
Beautifully written I couldn't agree more. It is so scary to think of what our childrens future holds, but we have to remain positive and hope that they are the positive future this world needs xx #dreamteam
Thank you! It seems like the world is a scary pace right now but I really want it to be better for my kids.xx
This is such a moving post. I feel your fear. I completely understand what you mean about it being quite scary at the moment in the world. I too often worry, for now and for the future. But, if that worry overtakes all the good, the baddies win. Thank you for linking up to the #DreamTeam
I agree. There's definitely a new found fear in the everyday when you have kids. The thought of losing mine, or something happening to me so that I'm not there for him is horrific. #dreamteam
Thank you Annette! and thank you for picking this to be the featured post this week. I know exactly what you mean, we don't want the baddies to get their own way. xx
You are completely right! I'm having to work really hard to not let fears take over. xx
What a lovely post, can feel your emotion in it. There's so much fear of things you would never have thought of before having kids, so you always want to protect them. #bestandworst
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I think you have kids and EVERYTHING is so scary. I have more worries about leaving them and the issues around the World at present are so terrifying. But you are right these little innocent things need to be children and all we can do is our best. Thanks for sharing with #bestandworst x
I try not to worry too much as life is too short - it can be hard though! #bestandworst
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